The Law of Nature Has it…
Over the years, we ladies have been on a primal disadvantage when it comes to personal, psychological and emotional torture from co-workers. So you are employed, pay your rent, have your car, do your shopping, and are the typical self-independent lady but still you have sleepless nights. Why is it that despite everything looking and being spectacular, you still can’t seem to have a piece of mind?
I have come to realize that despite us being in the 21st century, we are still colonized by our fellow humans most especially men. The environments that we work in are questionable regardless of the fact that we earn a good bounty at the end of the month. So many many, tragic events take place behind what your friend’s family and the world can see. In many cases, the job obtained rightfully by most ladies through a thorough four to five interview sessions becomes a nightmare. That boss up the ladder earning millions of money is up to making your life miserable. In this case, most managers will want to take the young beauty with brains ladies. Many working women in the offices have stories they wish they could share. But a word on this means losing their dream jobs. But now this old man with families can’t they for heaven’s sake let the young lady grow herself? Nothing in this world comes in their mind other than messing around with the innocent lady.
Many will tend to show particular interest to their employees which most women will try to ignore. Just when you are up thanking God for the new life the naughty, inhuman and stupid boss throws a bomb. When a male or female boss is interested in you, they will invite you for official lunch or dinner. With all the respect and innocence you prepare you self-up unaware of what awaits you.
The Virtue Within..
In many situations, this unethical boss’s make life’s unbearable for the victims who worked hard to get that job. The greatest percent of them will never take a No for an answer. One is always given an ultimatum of either making up their minds to gives in to the bosses’ demands or risk losing their jobs. These people are capable of carrying these threats since they are in the top management.
Those who value human dignity with a Christian upbringing will not give in no matter what it takes. But there are other will go ahead and do it.
While your boss is hitting on you is the worst possible feeling you have at work. At this point, your mind goes into a confusion state, while your heart drops, with your facing going and your dared lined tripling. In this situation take your time don not respond to your boss. Politely excuse yourself as you are likely to make a mistake if you said anything.
This may not be the exact thing to do, but you can do some of the below:
Politely say NO- things like am sorry am not comfortable dating a junior at my work at it is against our work ethics.
Even if you are not engaged to anybody just say you have a fiancée or even have a fake ring any time you are going to work. This may not work for many of the crazy bosses.
At times it’s good to try talking to someone close who has been working for the organization for a long time .With this, you will know if it the bosses habit and you can deal with it from there.
Always keep your morals values and human dignity with pray and am sure he will give you a way out of this crisis.